The
facebook status read something like this, “My Church family is better than
yours.” The person’s heart was not in the wrong place. The person was simply
saying that they loved their church family, and that is great. I love seeing
enthusiasm for church family. However, if you have ever read my blog posts
before, you know that if I see or hear a statement, my mind immediately begins
chasing rabbit trails. So, I read, “My Church family is better than yours,” and
I thought to myself, “You know…Churches really don’t work together that
often. In fact, it is like we are rivals or competition to one another.”
This then ushered in thoughts of how Churches begin to reflect business. We
rarely call the people in our church 'family' anymore (which I loved about
the particular post). What do we call them? Church members. What do we
call people who want to potentially become a part of our church families? Prospective
Members. Funny, that’s what country clubs call them too. Think about how
the church is set up. At many churches, mostly Baptist, there are committees for
EVERYTHING. I am, quite frankly, surprised that there is a not a ‘restroom
committee’ that monitors the frequency of members bathroom usage during the
service. There is even a Committee on Committees that is a committee
that oversees all of the other committees. Then, with all these
positions of ‘power’ available, people begin to search for means of promotion
within the church. Not only is this business mind-set ruining relationships
within our respective churches, it is ruining our relationships with our brothers
and sisters at other churches. Just like in business, our churches have
developed mindsets and strategies aimed at destroying the competition through
flashy promotion, the latest trends, and of course, dousing the competition
with underhanded comments and gossip. So, here’s the truth. According to
scripture, we are not a business but a family. That, by the way, is not
limited to your particular church, but every Scripture-affirming,
Bible-believing, Christ honoring, and disciple making church in your area and around
the world. This means that we should love each other as family. We should care for each other as family. How
is the world to know that we follow Christ? By how we love each other! So,
let’s silence the nonsense of church rivalry. Let’s not let the fear of losing
a church family member to another church stop us from working together. Let’s
stop church hopping to find a church to fit our needs. Let’s get
back to basics. Our job is to spread the message of the Gospel and the love of
Christ to our neighbors (within and outside the church) so that they can
glorify our Father. This is our purpose. We are family. Yes. That did get that
song stuck in my head.
-Heath
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